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Find out: I read this book in one sitting and loved it. Mar 08, Charlane Brady rated it really liked it. There is a skunkbear video showing a musician using neurotherapy to diminish her heartbreak and there are other things someone can actively do besides start dating pre-maturely or getting a new pet to help detach from your lost one Jul 06, Stacy rated it liked it Shelves: Real heartbreak is unmistakable.
Nov 03, Alda Nielsdottir rated it really liked it. I was given an advanced reader's copy from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. When I stumbled upon the word heartbreak I used to picture a teenage girl crying into her pillow over a guy, but after reading this book I have come to understand that heartbreak comes in many shapes and forms.
This book was written by Guy Winch, a psychologist, who uses his experiences with real patients of his to teach us about the effects of heartbreak, and how to recover from it and how not to. This book is e I was given an advanced reader's copy from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. This book is essentially a guide to moving on from heartbreak, whether it's because of a messy divorce, the death of a family member or the death of a pet, or just a first date gone bad.
All of those reasons are legitimate reasons for someone to be upset and in pain. But society won't see it that way. In his book, Winch talks about how people are more understanding and compassionate when you've lost a family member or been through a messy divorce, but are less likely to take your emotional pain seriously when you've lost a pet or been dumped after a handful of dates.
Winch also points out, with the help of his patients, that people still don't take emotional pain as seriously as physical pain, even though people can be just as crippled by their emotional pain as a broken bone.
I was pleasantly surprised by this book, and I found it very informative. This isn't just a list of what to do and what not to do when going through heartbreak, this author uses examples from his actual patients to illustrate his points, which makes him seem more trustworthy and like he actually knows what he's talking about. It is definitely worth the read. Feb 15, John Ray Catingub rated it it was amazing. A very short and easily applicable help book that uses anecdotes from a psychologist with a private practice to show that a journey from, through, and over heartbreak is possible.
Steps to get over are practical and don't ask much, with the condition of time. A good reminder that, as much as time heals, we initiate and maintain our own healing.
In conjunction with Dr. Winch's TED talk, it's transformative.
Feb 22, Emma rated it it was ok. Do yourself a favor and download the Mend app instead of reading this book. Same scientific data to back up the assertions, but with fewer editorial mistakes. Mar 27, Gavin Esdale rated it it was amazing. I needed this. I came across Guy Winch's wonderful TED talk a few days ago about how to fix a broken heart, and, having been recently broken up with, I found his talk to be tender, informative, heartfelt, and empowering.
It was exactly the kind of thing I needed at the time. This book is essentially an expansion of Winch's TED talk. It covers all of the subject matter in his presentation but adds the interesting new facet of including explorations of the grief faced by pet owners whose pets have I needed this.
It covers all of the subject matter in his presentation but adds the interesting new facet of including explorations of the grief faced by pet owners whose pets have passed on too. The result is a short, concise, and ultimately wonderful read. I can only provide my own experience when it comes to applying what I've learned from Guy Winch, but from that experience I can say that this book is life-changing.
It will help the brokenhearted, the grieving, and for anyone who reads it under happier circumstances, it will serve as a strong reminder to have compassion for those who are suffering. I cannot say what everyone's experience will be, but Guy Winch shared his insights and they certainly are helping me through a dark chapter. For that, and for this book, I will forever be grateful.
Recommended for everyone everywhere. Aug 12, Erin rated it really liked it. This was helpful and healing.
Mar 01, Matthew Galloway rated it really liked it Shelves: Short, but definitely made me feel better about where I was am?
I think most of the "how" has to do with changes we need in our society, but there are definitely some strong and logical points about things we can do now to help ourselves. Feb 15, Jess rated it it was amazing. I read this book in one sitting and loved it. I'm sure everyone can relate to feeling broken hearted, the passing of a loved one, break ups and betrayels. This book explores case studies that Guy Winch has come across in his years of being a practising psychologist.
He explores why society treats different heartaches differently and the physical and emotional deterioration one feels when experiencing a broken heart. This is a brilliant book and such a quick, great read.
It validates the readers e I read this book in one sitting and loved it. It validates the readers emotional pain and experiences and enlightens them as to why we get 'addicted' to our pain and triggers.
I don't think I am explaining it all to well, I think this is a book for absolutely everyone, it's not dry and so interesting you wouldn't regret reading it. This book was provided to me by Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
Self-compassion as a resource is the highlight of this book. That's what I am taking away from these pages, especially having read it at a time when that resource was drained away by several one-way, poorly nourished social interactions.
I read Winch's notes from his patients with thinking that he is asking readers to supply themselves with something no one can provide, friends or otherwise: His language is overall affirming and calm, with rich details. His book made a point for Self-compassion as a resource is the highlight of this book. His book made a point for me to sometimes just 'take things at face value' and change lanes - correct a misfit method: I'd have liked to read a few pages on the place of 'privileged bodies causing grief to other bodies by taking the liberty to drop in and out of the latter's lives' in his discussion too, though.
I realize that is a deep, well-established, toxic well that feeds much of norm in social interactions in Winch talked about unresolved grief and longest mourning that he illustrated all throughout the book; that grief is sometimes an outcome of normalizing surface explanations that favors the privileged person in the relationship. Not necessarily if we are mourning the loss of a pet; however, dealing with connections where we find ourselves as the 'supporting actor' is always going to breed enough material for heartbreak, mourning, grudge, grief, and obsession, some of the positions Winch's patients found themselves struggling with.
In my work, I deal with the connection of heightened sensitivity and artistic expressions, and I realize people who are obsessed with searching for honest explanations and fewer blind spots in social relationships also possess more porous targets for grief and such.
That is actually another reason why they should stick to self-compassion more. The privileged easily -and anxiously- convince themselves that they have said enough to get out of a less-than-functional connection, while 'a patient' or a grieving body keeps questioning what they missed in the picture.
I understand Winch's book serves to affirm and reinforce a positive outcome in terms of taking the control of time and letting go of what does not serve.
I also understand that the book is already speaking to making compassion a norm deeper than chastising or putting a blame on person due to 'unproductivity', so why not cut that chord while holding it already?
Mar 12, Kristine rated it liked it Shelves: The effect of heartbreak on emotions and mental health, its lasting pain no matter how old we are. The narration is dense with description, explanation, and the use of case-study-like examples, while focusing on both romantic heartbreak and heartbreak after the death of a pet.
These two heartbreaks share similarities, such as grieving and mourning a relationship, its expectations, and what might've been How to Fix a Broken Heart by Guy Winch is a free NetGalley ebook that I read in late February. These two heartbreaks share similarities, such as grieving and mourning a relationship, its expectations, and what might've been, self-questioning, looking for other reasons why, and recounting difficult times over and over again with a need to reconcile them, as well as the possibility of a lack of compassion from friends and family who want to support you, yet have you get over it sooner leading to embarrassment and linking relationships to one's own identity.
I was hoping to learn much more I really enjoyed the TED talk but was disappointed by the book. A lot of generalities I already knew. I was expecting much more practical advice and methodology. It feels like the author could have made it more comprehensive.
Jul 10, DT Hien rated it it was amazing. There are so much things I can relate in this book. And yes, it gonna help you fix your broken heart. Physical injury and mental breakdown should be treated in the same way and receive equal sympathy from other ppl.
If you are having a hard time getting over someone, read this one over and over again. Guy is looking for a culture shift for everyone to be more understanding of people going through the emotional pain and grief of heartbreaks as part of helping them heal. We should give support to our friends and family as long as they need, even if it feels longer than you think it should.
We need to recognize and redirect behaviors that inadvertently prolong healing such as displaying memorabilia, revisiting memories that unconsciously spark the addiction like response of love or most disturbi Guy is looking for a culture shift for everyone to be more understanding of people going through the emotional pain and grief of heartbreaks as part of helping them heal.
We need to recognize and redirect behaviors that inadvertently prolong healing such as displaying memorabilia, revisiting memories that unconsciously spark the addiction like response of love or most disturbing of all, cyber stalking.
All of these behaviors can serve to idealize someone and overlook their flaws. We can write our own reasonable explanations for break ups that upholds our dignity and is easy to explain to others to ease the pain of trying to figure out why a break up occurred. One thing that stood out to me was that people don't realize they can go to therapy if they don't have the support of their social network. Once people around are losing patience, many internalize the opinions of their friends that they should be over it already.
This means, on top of not having the necessary support to move on, they are having negative thoughts compounding their healing. I gave it a 3 for a couple of reasons. I have read other books with similar information about revisiting places to make new contextual memories and de-romanticizing and reclaiming those spaces and I didn't think there was enough guts here. There is a skunkbear video showing a musician using neurotherapy to diminish her heartbreak and there are other things someone can actively do besides start dating pre-maturely or getting a new pet to help detach from your lost one Otherwise, I liked some of the insights.
Mar 08, Charlane Brady rated it really liked it. I was disappointed. I am not even sure why. Then a month passed, and I was still hurting as much as when I read the book. So, I thought I should just get over myself and admit that my heart is broken, and admit I was not taking action to stop behaviors that were keeping my heart in turmoil.
After accepting this, I referenced How to Fix a Broken Heart, and there it was in black and white — have self-compassion, let go, and change your behaviors. Of course, always easier to say than do, but I was now ready. Additionally, his writing on the effect heartbreak has on our brain made it okay to admit to myself that I have been in disarray.
Apparently, heartache wreaks havoc on our brains. This havoc makes it is easy to fall into habits where we get addicted to the emotional despair and all of the triggers that keep us in heartache. How to Fix a Broken Heart was an interesting choice for me to read as I rarely admit when my heart is hurting. Clicking "read" and writing this review on here has surprised me. I mean, I do not even know how to call a friend to talk about my hurting heart.
And apparently, Guy Winch can wreak enough havoc on one's closed heart mind with his facts to cause one to open up. Mar 26, Venerdi Handoyo rated it liked it.
Proposing that heartbreaks - romantic or platonic, between humans or men with their pets - are as serious as other illnesses, and worthy of sick leave from the office, Guy Winch also underlines the fact that we, the society, have agreed to take them for granted, and to appreciate them in the form of no more than Hollywood dramas and romantic comedies. As despair of losing our first love is still deemed a silly excuse to skip school, we are demanded to deal with the agony of our heartbreaks withou Proposing that heartbreaks - romantic or platonic, between humans or men with their pets - are as serious as other illnesses, and worthy of sick leave from the office, Guy Winch also underlines the fact that we, the society, have agreed to take them for granted, and to appreciate them in the form of no more than Hollywood dramas and romantic comedies.
As despair of losing our first love is still deemed a silly excuse to skip school, we are demanded to deal with the agony of our heartbreaks without adequate support from the system. The book pinpoints the many mistakes we made whenever we try to cure our own broken hearts, and - more importantly! Then, the book guides us to take practical steps to heal ourselves. My biggest problem with the book is the fact that out of his extensive practice as a counselor for staggering twenty years, Mr.
Winch presents us only a half-day reading of a hundred pages. I would love to find out more than just an elaboration of Mr. Mar 24, Chrisanne rated it liked it Shelves: I agree that we should give more compassion to those suffering bereavement. I also think the information regarding brain scans was fascinating but, given my own break-up experience, not unpredictable.
His points for better healing processes were also helpful. It would be interesting to see the stats of those in some form of emotional bereavement divorce, death, break-up, etc and see the comparison brain scans between those who had recently suffered death of a spouse and those who had recently I agree that we should give more compassion to those suffering bereavement.
It would be interesting to see the stats of those in some form of emotional bereavement divorce, death, break-up, etc and see the comparison brain scans between those who had recently suffered death of a spouse and those who had recently suffered a break-up. And the level of physical involvement in that break-up, etc. I did think that he should be one of the forerunners of a new group I want to start. But, sadly, he doesn't seem to advocate for that.
Jan 21, Leslie rated it really liked it. I decided to give this a try after You Tube randomly led me to the Ted Talk this book came from don't worry, I only fritter away my time on YouTube every once in a blue moon ; It's good and a quick read to boot.
I enjoyed the case studies and his self-admitted corny humor. His French accent is rather charming which only makes the experience that much more enjoyable the audiobook is read by the author. I disagree with another reviewer who said that if you've seen the Ted Talk you don't need to I decided to give this a try after You Tube randomly led me to the Ted Talk this book came from don't worry, I only fritter away my time on YouTube every once in a blue moon ; It's good and a quick read to boot.
I disagree with another reviewer who said that if you've seen the Ted Talk you don't need to read the book. The book has plenty of new content and I learned more about how to apply the principles of mindfulness, self-compassion and 1 or 2 more related principles I can remember right now.
Typical recommendations to keep busy, move on, repair your hidden flaws, and then forget about it may not be helpful. In these pages, Susan Piver reveals that heartbreak actually creates an opportunity for genuine emotional and spiritual transformation, enabling you to emerge on the other side stronger, softer, and capable of loving with renewed confidence. She shares that wisdom here, with instantaneously recognizable anecdotes, insights, on-the-spot practices, exercises, meditations, and down-to-earth advice that make The Wisdom of a Broken Heart a steadying prescription of solace and encouragement, wisdom and humor during the hardest time of your life.
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